Thursday, June 20, 2013

Words I'm Learning to Live By

Montessori is all about the exploration of the child, words are somewhat just a necessity, a formality if you will.

Let Your Words Be Few - Ecclesiastes 5:2

I am learning ways to use descriptive language.  What a child "is" is a beautiful, loving, giving, intellectual being.  What a child feels is a different matter. I'm working hard to change my language and realize the difference between the two.  So, throughout the day I am a broken record describing the parts of my body or senses that I'm using or trying to interpret their actions and words. Next time your child is having trouble, instead of using, "John, you are being mean...", try "John, I see that you are using your hands to hurt..." One of the formal terms for it is calling mirroring.  You are mirroring the actions that you see, perhaps correctly or incorrectly.   Below are the most common lines I've been using with my 3-6 year olds.

I see with my eyes that you would like...

I hear with my ears that you would like...

I see that you feel...


In the evening when I'm trying to turn off my guiding brain, I've found myself using it with my spouse, as well.  It has spurred some great conversation, which otherwise could have taken an unhealthy turn.  He's even been known to turn it on me once or twice. :)

Today, at the last day of summer camp, my little budding flowers have begun to fully bloom.  I could see it in their newly curious and descriptive eyes.  I secretly hoped what every teacher hopes, to inspire the unquenchable desire for knowledge, and I think I have begun to succeed.  It was most evident today, when my kids turned my own language on me...

"Children, could you come see me please?"
"Mrs. Dru, we can see you with our eyes from here, would you like us to come walk to you?"

"Mrs. Dru, would you please scratch my vertebrae, it's scratching (itching) me."

"I hear an aplomado falcon with my ears." (Yea, that's what I thought too)


Peace!

Dru

Friday, June 14, 2013

Glimpse into Summer Camp

We have completed the first week. Each day at noon I have been overcome with this period of complete and utter weariness. That time when even your eyes are tired at looking, much less your brain at processing. Then when I could actually stop, it would come. That moment of doubt. That nagging that tells you that you're doing it wrong, you don't have any training or skill, you haven't read enough, you haven't observed enough, and you haven't prepared enough material. Then you wonder if they're even having a good time, and goodness, what they tell their parents when they get in the car. What one minute detail did they remember out of the full 3 hours you were with them.

Then during my own children's nap time I would update our daily log and interface, scrolling through the pictures of the morning. And I would see these...






After looking at the pictures of Day 1, all of my doubt was replaced by awe. In all of my craziness to orient, introduce, and re-direct, I missed these intricate glimpses of intense concentration and discovery. They were quick and hard to catch with the naked eye or lens, but I knew it was there. Sometimes I would take a break to breathe, catch the eye of one of my helpful room moms, or angel moms as I refer to them in my mind, and would give a silent exclamation of joy. I'm sure they thought I was crazy.

By day 4, I could see that my little flower buds had grown and were beginning to unfurl their soft petals. They were now sitting together in a group working on matching our scent bottles with the corresponding pictures, laughing and giggling at the smell of dirt.


I even had a moment of panic when beyond the laughter of the three, I was missing sight of the other two. One happened to be sitting in the book corner intently flipping through the pages of a book on the sense of sight, and upon tiptoeing to the doorway, the other joyful girl of the class was quietly making a face out of her cheese and pretzels, and humming Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, the association song we used for remembering the primary colors.

It was in the brief 3 moments of quiet bliss, that I realized I was not needed. In three short days I had begun to foster concentration, self exploration, discovery, and a joy in learning. It was at that moment I decided that this was going to be my life's work, and with a lot of hard work and a dash of grace, I could one day call myself a Montessorian.

Dru


Thursday, June 6, 2013

Positive Discipline


Me: "Ella, would you like to set the table for lunch?" 
Girl: "No, I don't want to help." (Storms off) 
Boy: "Ella, I see that you feel frustrated." 
Girl: (Forcefully) "No, I'm not frustrated." 
Boy: "How could I help you feel happy?" 
Girl: "Well, I can't get off my shoe." 
Boy: "Let's try together." 

Yes, this actually happened...with 3 year olds!  I could do nothing but stand in the kitchen mouth agape. Obviously there many ways I could have dealt with her initial rudeness and choice of words,   but, what she was really trying to express was that she couldn't get her shoe off, and it was hurting her foot.   Her peer, acknowledged and validated her feelings of hurt/pain/anger etc, and offered to help.  Together, they used their tools to help solve a problem without ever needing me.  And let's face it, not being needed at this age is enough to make you shout with joy!  

In our world, words are everywhere and mean everything.  In a toddler's world, they are still trying to figure out what all of these emerging emotions mean, how they can express them, what they are allowed to do with them, etc.  Positive Discipline provides them the tools to have control over their actions and how to react to one another.  

Positive Discipline is NOT based on this idea:

You do this...
and I'll do this...


You apologize, and then I will give you the toy.  You now have a gold star, but if you talk, I will take it away.  The gratification and consequences are not external, but rather are internal.  Based on the choices they make, they accept the logical consequences.  I, the adult, do not control what makes you feel happy, mad, sad, etc.  I am the guide that helps to provide you with the tools you need  to make the right decision.  

Children are good and are striving to do the right thing, but often times they don't know what to apply when, and we mis-interpret them.  So here are, hopefully, some helpful tools for your discipline toolbox.  

Positive Discipline in the Classroom page 73 
In our world, words are everywhere and mean everything.  In a toddler's world, they are still trying to figure out what all of these emerging emotions mean, how they can express them, what they are allowed to do with them, etc.  Positive Discipline provides them the tools to have control over their actions and how to react to one another.   

Below are books that I have read or are reading on the subject.  This is just the tip of the iceberg.  But I have seen great success in myself and children.  


Be At Peace! 

Dru 

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Sound Bins

Kids love to play with stuff.  Somehow collections are started without a conscious thought.  No one told me this, and I never ran across it in the parent handbook.  After collecting three years worth of dolls, dresses, happy meal toys, etc.,  My Boy's Teacher has finally helped me figure out what to do with them.  Two simple words can organize your life.

Sound Bins!


Using a set of craft organizers from Lowes, I designated a small drawer to each letter of the alphabet, including the digraphs. You could even used a tackle box if on hand. Then as I stepped on or vacuumed up the tiny pieces, they get placed in the drawers.  Each drawer is labeled with a permanent marker (which can be removed with nail polish remover as needed).  I am also teaching the digraphs (sound blends) with them, so you'll see them labeled in green.  They have been amazingly easy to fill, and I haven't spent a dime.


"d"sound bin 

"sh" sound bin
During school, the children can then choose to work on a letter sound box.  Our "d" sound box currently contains a dog, dress, duck, drum, and dragon.  Our "sh" digraph contains a sheep, shrub, shorts, and a shoe.

With my 3.5 year olds, we are currently working on labeling the beginning sound, the ending sound,  or finishing the word.  In our Montessori classroom,  we are using these in tandem with our moveable alphabet, but you certainly wouldn't have to.  

 

In the picture above, our 3.5 year old placed the beginning sound completing the word.  He obviously still gets his "b" and "d" mixed up in written form, but could say it properly. And I can't say that after it was all over, the cat didn't have a hat sitting on a mat with a bat flying above. :)     

This has been a wonderful help in the classroom (and our home life) as now we have a place and use for all of this cra--, I mean stuff :).

Dru




Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Importance of Oral Language



Developmentally around the age of 2 a child becomes very sensitive to the spoken language.  So what did I do? I began to flash letters of the alphabet in every shape, size, font, and animal in front of them.  What I didn’t realize, but quickly found out, was that all the energy (and money in ink) that I put into making a lesson lasted all of about her 3-minute attention span.  
What I know now is that she was showing me that she was ready for the foundation of language.  The foundation of a language education does not begin with flashcards and animal shapes, but in a much simpler, and time saving way—orally! 
Within the Montessori environment, the first presentation of written letters does not begin until 3 ½.  That doesn’t mean exposure to the alphabet is not a good thing, but spend these beginning years fostering a good foundation, so that when they are developmentally sensitive to written language, learning their letters will come quickly and easily.  Montessori Read and Write has some great sound games and exercises that can be played at home and in the car.  Books are also a great way to spy letters and sounds as well.  


Level 1
Age 2 ½

What you will need: Gather together a few objects which your child can name and put them on a table in front of you.  In the beginning avoid objects that start with similar sounds, such as “p” and “b,” “v” and “w.”

Purpose: To help your child to hear individual sounds at beginning of words.

How to Play: Choose one of the objects, hold it in front of you and label its first sound

Example: I Spy something that begins with “p” 

Mastered: When she can correctly identify all beginning sounds


Level 2
Age 2 ½ - 3

What you will need: Familiar objects you have gathered from around the home.  Initially, choose contrasting sounds, but move closer to similar sounds.

Purpose: To help your child distinguish one initial sound from another.

How to Play: Place two objects in front of you, each with different initial sounds but similar in nature. Ex (cup and mug, car and motorbike, airplane and helicopter.   Your child now has to make a choice listening closely to the sounds.  Gradually increase to having up to 5 objects.  Commonly alike sounds are: b,p,m,n,v, and w.


Level 3
Age 3 ½ 

What you will need: Nothing! This level of game can be played anywhere and at any time, and is closest to “I spy.” Play this in the car.

Purpose: Make your child aware that many objects may begin with the same sound.  Once he has mastered this stage, you are now ready to introduce the written letters.  A traditional Montessori school would then show them the Sandpaper Letters.

How to Play: Choose an area (starting small and then gradually increasing the playing area).  Pick an object in it. Play traditional “I spy.”  She does not have to locate the object, but simply to call it out recognizing its sound.  You can now take turns. 

Example: “In this kitchen, I spy something that begins with a ‘g.’” 


Level 4
Age: 3 ½ to 4 ½

What you will need: You will need to temporarily return to a collection of objects or to a part of the environment for play.  Regardless of whether you choose a collection of parts of a room, you will need objects whose sounds are initially the same, but whose last sounds are different.  For example: ball, bracelet, bag, or pen, peg, puppet. 

Purpose: To help develop your child’s awareness of sounds in words other than initial sounds.  An awareness of all sounds in words is essential when he starts to write and read.

How to Play: You say, “I spy something on the table (or in part of the room) that begins with ‘b’ and ends with ‘g.’” To begin with he may take a little time to learn to listen to the last sound.  If she says “ball,’” be positive in your response. 
“Yes, ball does begin with ‘b,’ but I asked for something that begins with ‘b’ and ends in ‘g’; let’s listen to the last sound in ball.”  Say it slowly and carefully.  


Level 5
Age: 3 ½ to 4 ½

What you will need: Nothing at all unless you wish to use objects.

Purpose: To help your child to analyze all the sounds in a word.  This is a skill that will be helpful when she is beginning to read and write.  In a traditional Montessori school, she will need to be at this level before using the Moveable Alphabet.

How to Play: This stage will follow naturally from before.  Once your child can readily find a word that begins and ends with a particular sound, stop and listen for all the sounds in the word.  Begin with fairly short words.  For example if the word is “cup” and she has identified that it begins with “c” and ends in “p,” you could say, “Let’s listen to all the sounds in ‘cup.’ Let’s say it slowly. C-u-p.  Did you hear the sound after ‘c’?  Let’s say ‘cup’ again.”
            “Now that we know all the sounds in ‘cup,’ let’s find all the sounds in ‘pan,’ then ‘coffee.’”  Gradually the words become longer and longer, and you two can have fun making the words more difficult.  


Level 6
Age 4 ½ - 6

What you will need: Nothing

Purpose: This stage is designed to use all the knowledge gathered thus far with regard to sounds, and to encourage your child to play with the sounds in words.

How to play: Think of a sound, for example “m.” Now think of all the words that have the sound “m” in them somewhere.  Think of words with it in the initial sound, the middle sound, and the end.  Example: marmalade, number, minimum, etc.  Have fun!







Thursday, April 11, 2013

Schedule of Activities


Hi! I wanted to provide you an update, and a peek into some of the materials I've been making.  I also wanted to provide a background on the education philosophies and teaching methods of Montessori, and how that will transcribe into the camp.

Montessori is a method of education started by Italian physician Maria Montessori in the early 1900s. (She is often considered the first occupational therapist because of the techniques and manipulatives that she created are still in use today). Entering its 100th anniversary, Montessori schools are found through-out the world for grades infancy through high school. Going beyond a curriculum, I classify it as a holistic learning style.  It first provides a carefully prepared environment where children can move about freely choosing their work, or better known as "following the child".  It then goes beyond the core study subjects incorporating the refinement of the care of self and environment, and sensory learning.  The first on that list is the respect for the child as his/her own person.  Deb from Living Montessori Now explains it best as she expresses "that a teacher in a Montessori class acts as a source of guidance and gentle direction. Whether the child is ready to learn how to tie shoes, how to differentiate shades of color, how to read, or how to understand the decimal system, the child determines the major educational direction. While the children develop inner direction and discipline, the teacher provides freedom within limits."

I hope this provides a very very simple explanation of the philsophies and practices of the Montessori education.  For our summer activities, we’ll be focusing on the areas of Sensory, Practical Life, Botany, Zoology, and Human Science. I’ve provided a list of what will be available in our environment for their study and exploration below.  These are including the thematic units that we’ll do as a group, but otherwise they’ll have the freedom to explore on their own as their own intelligence and desires guide them. 


Practical Life (Art, Care of Self, Care of Environment): 
Art 
•   Clay
•   Cutting 
•   Pencil colors 
•   Free drawing

Control of Movement (refinement of extremities): 
•   Wet Pour (whole hand grasp)  
•   Transfer (three finger grasp) 
•   Hand-washing 
•   Dressing- hooks, buttons, velcro, snap 
•   Polishing- shoes, metal, wood  
•   Wrist Movement- nuts and bolts, tearing paper, cutting paper, spreading butter, cutting banana, hammering   
•   Bread making 

Care of Environment: 
•   Grace and Courtesy- treating one another with respect through positive reinforcement. Help promote peace through a peace table 
•   Pushing in a chair 
•   How to politely interrupt 
•   How to roll and unroll a mat 
•   How to work with and alongside one another 


Sensorial (Learning through the senses in isolation) (Thematic Unit of 5 senses)
  • Object
    Direct Aim
    Indirect Aim
    Cylinder Blocks
    Discrimination of thickness, height.
    Pre math; writing
    Pink Tower
    Visual discrimination of dimension
    Pre math; decimal system
    The Brown Stair
    Visual discrimination
    Prep math; decimal
    Red Rods
    Discrimination of length
    Prep math; metric decimal system
    Colored Cylinders
    Visual disharmony
    Prep math
    Binomial Cube
    Discrimination of form; construction of a cube
    Prep for algebra
    Constructive Triangles
    Discrimination of form and new construction
    Prep for geometry
    Color Box 1
    Discrimination of color- primary
    Intro to primary colors
    Color Box 2
    Discrimination of color- secondary
    Intro to secondary colors
    Color Box 3
    Discrimination of color- grading
    Gradation of shades
    Geometric Solids
    Visual and tactile discrimination of solid forms
    Prep for geometry 
    Rough and Smooth Boards
    Discrimination of texture
    Prep for writing
    Thermic Bottles
    Discrimination of heat
    Consciousness of temperature in environment
    Sound Cylinders
    Auditory discrimination of sound
    Prep for music
    Tasting Bottles
    Discrimination of taste
    Making the child conscious of 4 basic  tastes 
    Smelling Bottles
    Discrimination of Smell
    Conscious of different smells

Botany
•   Sequence of Seeds 
•   Leaf  Puzzle 
•   Tree Puzzle 
•   Flower Puzzle 
•   Leaf Insets (matching a puzzle to a leaf in the environment) 
•   Magnifying board study   
•   Care of live plants 


Zoology 
Life cycle of a butterfly (thematic unit) 
•          stamping 
•          art creating 
•          live releasing of butterflies 
Life cycle of a frog 
•          habitat study 
•          art study  

Outside will be free play, but we will have a water wall, garden caring, Geometric shape bean bag toss, ring toss, and a  
glow in the dark color sensory room if they wish to explore.   










Monday, January 28, 2013

Why Practical Life?

Amongst the Language, Geography, and Math areas of the classroom, Dr. Montessori added a unique one--Practical Life.  She observed that children from 3 - 6 became interested in the art of scrubbing, polishing, pouring, tweezing and other skills that require fine motor and intense concentration.  She observed that even when the table was spotless, they took no notice, and began to scrub the polished spots again.

This proves the external stimuli was only a stimulus.  The real aim was to satisfy an unconscious need, and this is why the operation is formative, for the child's repetition was laying down in his nervous system an entirely new system of controls, in other words, establishing free co-ordinations between his muscles, not given by nature, but having to be acquired
                           Maria Montessori.  1967. The Absorbent Mind. New York: Dell Publishing Company 

As adults, we carry this out through the repetition of sports to learn better coordination, more speed, more precision, etc.

 So what does that mean?  It means that the two 3 year olds are in charge pushing their chair in, putting their plate in the sink, scrubbing and wiping the table, and sweeping the area around their table.  Is it always perfect? No.  But have they been eating really fast to jump at who gets to scrub the table or sweep the floor? Yup.

Practical Life also includes Social Development, or rules for functioning with one another.  This has been a great help for ground rules, greeting and saying goodbye, how to interrupt, and even how to ask for help.  We practice this daily, both in and out of the classroom.  Nothing is more beautiful to watch, then the little ones asking each other for help, or to encourage another's work.

 Below are some ideas, and how it aids his coordination.  And for a more complete set, here is a great list.  And don't forget to take a moment to show him how to do it first.

I. Small Muscle - Pouring
a. pouring from bowl to bowl (wet)- add food coloring so he can see when he spills to clean it up
b. pouring from bowl to bowl (dry)- start with big and move to small ex. navy beans, popcorn kernels, oatmeal, cornmeal
II. Small muscle - squeezing
a. grasp with whole hand- walnuts, large blocks, bowls
b. grasp with three fingers- salad tongs, clothespin clamping
III. Small Muscle- Twisting
a. spooning
b. screwing and unscrewing lids
c. whisking- bubble work great 
IV. Small Muscle- Sort
a. Age appropriate- color, shape, size, etc.
V. Cleaning
a. wiping up spills
b. sweeping
c. Table scrubbing
d. dish washing
e. folding